I’ve fallen in this trap more times than I could even tell you. It once was as normal as breathing.
Someone presents you with a need, a request, an expectation, a demand - anything they desire you to do.
And it sounds like such a noble idea. And you really like being needed. And doing something helpful makes you feel included. And loved. And appreciated.
Especially when they tell you things like, “I’m just so overwhelmed. I need you desperately.”Read More