I was so angry at my past for forming me into a woman who thought she had to solve everyone else's problems - make everyone else happy - do all the things expected of me.Read More
I’ve fallen in this trap more times than I could even tell you. It once was as normal as breathing.
Someone presents you with a need, a request, an expectation, a demand - anything they desire you to do.
And it sounds like such a noble idea. And you really like being needed. And doing something helpful makes you feel included. And loved. And appreciated.
Especially when they tell you things like, “I’m just so overwhelmed. I need you desperately.”Read More
Right now you’re angry. Angry at God, angry at everyone around you, angry at everything. You blame everybody around you. God, your husband, your life, even yourself for making the choices you did. But that’s normal. That’s a part of the process.Read More
Do you feel the irresistible pull to solve everyone else’s problems? I once did, and it nearly destroyed me. Co-dependency is a great way to live a crummy life.Read More